Infants and Children Younger than School Age
Through baptism, your child is formally welcomed into membership in the Church. This is an important decision on your part, because as the parents, you are the first teachers of your child in the practice of the faith. It is also an opportune time for the family of the child to become more active in Christian faith and in participation as members of this Catholic community, which serves as a wonderful model of faith for your child.
The requirements for baptism at St. Priscilla involve participation in a pre-Baptism class. Classes are typically offered the third Sunday of every other month following Mass, and are listed in the bulletin. The class meets from approximately 12:30-1:30 pm in room 7 near the church office. Please call Mary Jo in the main office to pre-register (248-476-4700).
We recommend that if possible you attend the class before the birth. A baptismal date may also be reserved in advance.
We recognize that each family situation is unique, and planning a baptism often raises numerous questions. If you have questions or concerns, please contact either Deacon Bob or Fr. Jim through the main office so we can assist you.
School Age Children
Children who have reached school age but have not yet been baptized are prepared through the RCIC program (Roman Catholic Initiation of Children). Children are prepared for baptism both through regular religious education classes and additional preparation that is determined on an individual basis. Please contact the Religious Education office at
248-476-4702.
Adults
Adults who have not been baptized are invited to participate in the RCIA process (Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults). You will find more information on the RCIA section of this web site, and you are invited to contact Deacon Bob at
248-476-4700.
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Baptisms are often celebrated during Mass, which provides a wonderful way for the whole community to welcome the newly baptized and to celebrate with the family.
We also offer group baptisms that take place immediately following the 11:00 Mass, beginning around 12:15 near the baptismal font. These baptisms contain scripture readings, a reflection, and the Rite of Baptism, but not an entire Mass.
We ask families to arrive at least 15 minutes before Mass or the scheduled baptism, and to sit at the front of the church opposite the music area.
All Baptisms must be arranged in advance through the parish office.
Baptism During Mass
At the beginning of Mass, the priest greets the family. He asks the name you give your child and what you ask of God’s Church (Baptism).
After the homily, the priest will invite the parents, child, siblings, and godparents to stand at the font. Baptism is done by infusion (pouring water over the head). The child is then anointed with sacred chrism, which is perfumed oil that is used as a symbol of the gift of the Holy Spirit to the newly baptized. A white garment, symbolizing the new creation in Christ, is placed on the child. The priest introduces the child to the congregation as a new member of our community.
After Communion is finished, the priest will invite the godfather to light the baptismal candle for the child from the Paschal Candle, which symbolizes the light of Christ.
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What is the role of a godparent?
A godparent is chosen to take on the very special role of participating and sharing in his/her godchild’s Christian life and education. During the opening rites of the Liturgy of Baptism, the godparents are asked, "Are you ready to help the parents of these children in their duty as Christian parents?” A godparent’s role is to assist the parents in guiding their child to know God and to belong to his Church in the fullest way possible. What a privilege to share the responsibility of bringing a child up in the Christian faith!
What are the requirements to become a godparent?
The Church law calls for godparents to be practicing Catholics who have reached the age of sixteen and have received the sacraments of Eucharist and Confirmation. Godparents may be either male or female or one of each. A non-Catholic Christian witness may be a godparent, along with a practicing Catholic, as long as he or she has been Baptized. If you have questions or concerns, please consult with Deacon Bob or Fr. Jim.
What does a godparent do?
As a Christian and now as a godparent, pay special attention to the forms and symbols used in the rite of Baptism:
• the waters signify that our sins are washed away and we are restored to new life in Christ
• the white garment is a symbol of our new life in Christ
• the oil of chrism brings both healing and strength and sets us apart for the work of the Kingdom
• the candle is lit to symbolize that Christ is a "light for our feet," guiding us along the road of faith.
Over the next few years try some of the following ways to nurture and develop this spiritual relationship with your godchild:
• Celebrate each anniversary of your godchild’s Baptism with a visit, card, phone call, or appropriate gift (such as a Bible, religious book, or religious jewelry)
• As you godchild grows in his/her knowledge of the Christian faith, continue to share your own Christian faith and values. Send assurances of prayers and blessings to your godchild. Always speak well of the gift of our Christian faith and the need for regular prayer and worship of God.
• Mark each sacramental milestone in the life of your godchild with a special card or appropriate gift. Try to attend your godchild’s First Reconciliation, First Communion and Confirmation.
• Be supportive of your godchild’s parents in their role as Christian parents and primary educators of their child.
• Use this wonderful opportunity to review your own faith life and practice. Become a model of Christian living for your godchild through the practice of daily prayer, weekly attendance at Mass and an active and full participation in the life of your own parish.
Baptism is the sacrament of faith. But faith needs the community of believers. It is only within the faith of the Church that each of the faithful can believe. (Catechism of the Catholic Church #1253) Being a godparent is a lifetime responsibility and privilege, and it is only by living a full Christian life that you both will experience the great and joyful potential this relationship has to offer.
Congratulations and may God bless you and your new godchild!
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